[Rage] The friend zone

[KenshinHimuraRK]

Not gonna lie, just quickly scanned the topic title now, and thought it read "Rape: The Friend Zone."

my bad.

In some countries it is a legal solution.

[amak11]

You cant rape the willing :P

[iamsensay]

You cant rape the willing :P

How about you babe, you willing?

[crazy.neo]

[warhol]

It applies to girls too, but lordy knows it doesn't happen as often. It didn't feel like I was friendzoned though (though mentioned), a bit closer to a breakup. asfda;dflsdj tbh I didn't think this would get more than 2 replies (which I expected to be spammish)

[Rapt0r]

If it was like a breakup, it would mean you're not talking to him or hanging out anymore. Sucks. A few months ago, the girl I was seeing for well over a year broke up with me. We've been trying to remain friends. I want to still be friends with her because I still somewhat love her but at the same time, I really don't like hanging out with her. Things just don't feel right.

Relationships suck hard.

[warhol]

Things just don't feel right.

Relationships suck hard.

This forever

[Jama7301]

"Advice" from me that I normally end up giving my friends.

You're allowed to mope after a breakup or whatever for up to a month.

After that, move on. Stop letting what has happened control your life, and move on.

Usually it's more angry at them, so you get the generic, toned down version.

[Rapt0r]

I didn't mope. I just drank. A lot. There was a time period of over a week and a half where I didn't go to bed sober (I worked 8-4 every morning during the week too). Get expensive especially when my beer is $14 for a 12 pack and I'm no lightweight.

Also, relationships sure do suck, but I really miss the companionship. I really hope things go well with this girl I've been talking to/hanging out with. She mentioned something about wanting to play though Zombies ate my Neighbors! because she just bought it recently. Gonna see if she wants to coop dat poop this weekend maybe.

[vedicardi]

Things just don't feel right.

Relationships suck hard.

This forever

come on warhol you KNOW there is no such thing as a friend zone for women stop foolin around

[KenshinHimuraRK]

come on warhol you KNOW there is no such thing as a friend zone for women stop foolin around

But a friends with benefits zone is possible, and your friend won't dump you, so no rage involved.

[warhol]

Well, if it doesn't exist for women, what was I put into? (honest question)

[Rapt0r]

Describe the situation. You mentioned it was like a breakup which is NOTHING like being friend zoned.

[vedicardi]

Well, if it doesn't exist for women, what was I put into? (honest question)

yeah I can't really tell you unless you explain what happened yourself

[warhol]

Been friends with Dude for awhile. I ended up liking him after, say, two weeks. I didn't want to tell him, cause I kinda thought he wouldn't like me back. I ended up telling him anyway a month after, cause I really couldn't help it. He said he liked me at around the same time before, but that's gone now. He sees me more of a sister than anything beyond. I felt really close Dude, so it felt to me more like a breakup cause now we're awkward friends.

Naturally, I was going "FUU" in my head