Girls who u like(or love)

[BSRaven]

I can sum up what has happened in the last week in one word.

****.

She broke up with her last boyfriend, and as soon as I bring up the balls to ask... she gets another one.

[jiiiiimmmy]

*Comes out of hiding*
Well, too sum up my week.
I realized that I actually wanted to be with my ex, of which I had been a complete **** to for months because she wouldn't give me space when I needed to figure things out.
Now that she has given me space and has a new boyfriend I want her back.
Real bad too.
She loves me; I love her; she is with someone else and won't leave him, because he is too nice....
That equals up to me being massively confused. >.<
I hate that you realize what you have once it's gone.
v.v

It's amazing how telling random people what's going on with a girl you like is actually kind of refreshing.
Well, until the unknown flaming comes. =\
*Goes back into hiding*

[baseballplayinty]

Im more than a friend with this girl, sarah. Shes calls me a saint sent from god to her. and every night calls me and after were done talking tells me she loves me... Im her best friend so bonus points there haha. I really do love her

[kpChadR08]

Im her best friend so bonus points there haha.

Actually, that'd be the opposite. Haven't you seen the movie, "Just Friends"? lol

[DreamOnMan92]

Yeah, best friends dating is... bad. Tried it once, didn't work, never will again.

[jiiiiimmmy]

Yeah, best friends dating is... bad. Tried it once, didn't work, never will again.

Best friends dating, at least in certain situations, can actually work very well.
You just can't get all stupid and get scared of commitment.
The relationship I was talking about on the last page was with my best friend.
The thing you have to worry about though is what happens after the relationship ends.
If you opt to stay friends then more than likely things are gonna get real rough.
I don't quite know how it ends from that point...
At least not yet....

[omfgdrphl]

My girlfriend, and I, our relationship is falling apart, and I'm starting to like another girl, but I feel that I should stick with her, even though we're not doing great anymore.

[baseballplayinty]

Yeah i have lol. i at every chance make sure she thinks were more than just friends. Its hard to explain, shes had a messed up life when she was younger, with her dad... nvm, and im basically her therapist lmao. I just never have the balls to ask her out. Bad huh... I for a little bit there had a girl named roberta aka bobbie. Didnt have a connection :-\. Yeah understand what u mean jimmy, we never have fought in 3 years weve known each other haha, but if we did break up were not the kind of people to hold grudges for dating. unless someone cheats

[jiiiiimmmy]

Yeah understand what u mean jimmy, we never have fought in 3 years weve known each other haha, but if we did break up were not the kind of people to hold grudges for dating. unless someone cheats

That is what me and my ex said. Somehow I managed to mess everything up anyway. Guess anyone can be a jerk even if they are not one usually.
Just be careful man. And don't take the relationship for granted....especially after the real exciting new feeling starts to fade.
More than likely you know all of this already....but then again I thought I knew it all too until I experienced it. *sigh* v.v

[baseballplayinty]

I'll try, the only thing keeping me back is that shes cheated before and if she did i probably be sitting listening to what hurts the most by rascal flatts(our song) and not meant to be. Seems like relationships are so fragile and precious yet tear your heart in two or if ur lucky mends your broken heart. Im sorry about your relationship jimmy. As sarah said when bobbie and me broke up f... that bi... you have me! In other words there will be someone else to heal your heart even if it feels like you will never get over your ex.

[jiiiiimmmy]

@baseballplayinty
Yeah, I guess there is always someone else.

Oh, and I wouldn't worry about the cheating thing since you guys have been best friends for awhile.
I would assume she is pretty attached to you and wouldn't want to hurt you in any way.
Unless she has cheated repeatedly on people before or has given you any reason to doubt her I would not worry about it.
People make mistakes.

And as of yesterday, I have decided to stop being depressed about my relationship woes and focus on being the guy that I used to be when things were good, instead of the jackass I turned into near the end.
It is actually a very refreshing start. =D
Things feel very new again.

Music helps a lot too in keeping my emotions up.
Since this is a forum pretty much based in music I would assume most everyone uses that method of therapy?

[KTownEgghead]

Music helps a lot too in keeping my emotions up.
Since this is a forum pretty much based in music I would assume most everyone uses that method of therapy?

I wrote a song after my ex and I split... she found out. :P It wasn't a nice song, either.

[jiiiiimmmy]

I wrote a song after my ex and I split... she found out. :P It wasn't a nice song, either.

Haha. Well, you got too let your emotions out somehow...right?

I've written a few angry songs about relationships....but I have way too many sad songs.
Not too many people get to hear my music, so I never really get to see the reactions of the people that the songs are written for.
If I do let them hear it the only real reaction I ever seem to get is crying....Which can never be good...haha

[KTownEgghead]

I wrote a song after my ex and I split... she found out. :P It wasn't a nice song, either.

Haha. Well, you got too let your emotions out somehow...right?

I've written a few angry songs about relationships....but I have way too many sad songs.
Not too many people get to hear my music, so I never really get to see the reactions of the people that the songs are written for.
If I do let them hear it the only real reaction I ever seem to get is crying....Which can never be good...haha

Yeah. It's just a good way to express how you feel without killing other people :D

[omfgdrphl]

Music helps a lot too in keeping my emotions up.
Since this is a forum pretty much based in music I would assume most everyone uses that method of therapy?

I wrote a song after my ex and I split... she found out. :P It wasn't a nice song, either.

I'm in the process of writing a song for my girlfriend, since we're not doing great, I posted a link for the guitar tab somewhere... But yeah, music helps a lot, when I listen to Today by Smashing Pumpkins, I almost cry because she asked me to make her a background with the songs lyrics in it, and it's our song.

I also like breaking pencils and squeezing tennis balls to relieve stress.

And we broke up today...